There’s something unsettling about in-between moments. We’re no longer where we were but we’re not quite where we’re going. We’re suspended in a vast chasm called the “in-between.” Between here and there, we are called to wait. Sometimes the wait isn’t long or is filled with activity. Other times, the wait is slow, arduous, and seems to last forever.
As Bruce and I settle in my parents’ home, we remember daily that our “settling” is only momentary. When he is called to a job — wherever that may be — we will move again. It’s easy to remember our temporary situation now, when we are at a place when even our belongings have not yet arrived. But what happens if God prolongs the waiting?
Bruce admits he is not the most patient man. In fact, he stretches the little he has as far as he can. And while I’m reminding him to be patient while waiting for a job, I’m struggling with my own longings to get “settled.” Each of us have faced our reality at different moments – Has it really only be a week? or 10 days? Somehow it seems longer.
A few years ago, I heard a sermon about living in the in-between moments of life and it changed my thinking. Life often happens when we are waiting on something else to happen. I remind myself that I want to enjoy the moment wherever or whenever it is. That isn’t always easy in the waiting. But as we continue to live (and wait) in the in-between moments of this journey, I pray that I may keep my eyes open and alert for those special surprises that make the adventure even more exciting.